Francis and Linda - Boyfriend and Girlfriend for More Than 30 Years

Francis and Linda were very different ages, but they became fast friends. They called each other boyfriend and girlfriend all their lives. They enjoyed bowling and dances and going out to dinner or to each other’s homes. They would share a kiss or hug, and sit together watching Westerns. Sometimes Linda helped Francis clean his room. They talked on the phone often. They gave each other emotional support. When Linda’s parents died, Francis was there for her. When Francis was in the hospital, Linda was at his side. They did not express interest in marriage or a sexual relationship. Even in his 80s, Francis would say, “We’re not ready yet.” They liked their relationship the way it was.